
At the core of our work is the belief that intimacy is a skill — not a mystery.
Real connection begins when we slow down, tune into our bodies, and learn to express what we truly feel and desire.
We believe pleasure and connection are essential parts of a fulfilling life. Through honest communication, emotional awareness, and somatic (body
At the core of our work is the belief that intimacy is a skill — not a mystery.
Real connection begins when we slow down, tune into our bodies, and learn to express what we truly feel and desire.
We believe pleasure and connection are essential parts of a fulfilling life. Through honest communication, emotional awareness, and somatic (body-based) practices, we help people unlearn shame, explore their authentic desires, and create relationships rooted in trust, openness, and joy.
When you reconnect to your body and your truth, passion stops being something you chase — and becomes something you live.

We combine modern relationship coaching with somatic methods to help couples and individuals move from disconnection to desire.
Our sessions aren’t just talk — they’re experiential. We use body awareness, breathwork, and communication tools to help you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface. You’ll learn to notice patterns,
We combine modern relationship coaching with somatic methods to help couples and individuals move from disconnection to desire.
Our sessions aren’t just talk — they’re experiential. We use body awareness, breathwork, and communication tools to help you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface. You’ll learn to notice patterns, explore sensations, and practice new ways of connecting — emotionally, physically, and erotically.
As a couple, we bring both masculine and feminine energy into our work. Jem’s intuitive, embodied approach helps clients feel safe and deeply seen. Daz’s grounded and practical coaching style brings structure and clarity. Together, we create a space where honesty meets empathy — and where change feels exciting, not confronting.

We’re Jem & Daz — partners in love, life, and now in helping others rediscover theirs.
After ten years together, we’ve experienced firsthand the highs, lows, and evolutions that come with long-term love. Five years ago, we began exploring non-monogamy — not from a place of dissatisfaction, but from curiosity, growth, and a desire to live a
We’re Jem & Daz — partners in love, life, and now in helping others rediscover theirs.
After ten years together, we’ve experienced firsthand the highs, lows, and evolutions that come with long-term love. Five years ago, we began exploring non-monogamy — not from a place of dissatisfaction, but from curiosity, growth, and a desire to live and love authentically.
That journey opened our eyes to how little people are taught about real intimacy — emotional, physical, and sexual. It inspired us to train in somatic intimacy coaching and relationship education, so we could share what we’ve learned with others.
Today, through The Intimacy Academy, we guide couples and individuals to communicate honestly, reignite passion, and embrace pleasure without shame. Because everyone deserves relationships that feel alive, safe, and full of connection.

The Somatica Institute is one of the world’s leading schools for sex and relationship coaching — a pioneering training program that blends science, psychology, and somatic (body-based) methods to help people create deeper emotional and erotic connections.
Their approach goes beyond traditional talk therapy. The Somatica Method focuses on experiential learning — helping clients reconnect with their bodies, understand their desires, and build real intimacy through presence, vulnerability, and embodied practice. It’s a method rooted in neuroscience, attachment theory, and the belief that pleasure is one of the most powerful tools for transformation.
Jem is currently completing her certification as a Somatica Method Sex & Relationship Coach, training directly under the institute’s founders, Celeste & Danielle — known for their groundbreaking work featured on Channel 4’s Virgin Island. Through this training, Jem is deepening her expertise in emotional awareness, erotic embodiment, trauma-informed communication, and pleasure-based coaching.
This hands-on training enriches everything we do at The Intimacy Academy — bringing you the latest, most effective tools for real, lasting change in your relationships and intimacy.

The Somatica Institute is one of the world’s leading schools for sex and relationship coaching — a pioneering training program that blends science, psychology, and somatic (body-based) methods to help people create deeper emotional and erotic connections.